When two cultures meet in love, something beautiful is created. A German-Turkish wedding is much more than a celebration – it is a bridge between worlds, an expression of togetherness and mutual appreciation. It tells the story of two people who do not leave their origins behind, but celebrate them as part of their shared identity.
More than three million people with Turkish roots live in Germany today, and in Berlin alone, the Turkish community is a vibrant, natural part of the city with around 200,000 people. Many second, third or fourth generation couples have grown up in Germany, deeply rooted in both cultures. Their weddings reflect exactly that: modern, stylish, international – and yet supported by family traditions that you wouldn’t want to miss.
Traditions meet…
A German-Turkish wedding is not a balancing act, but an invitation to celebrate diversity. It offers the opportunity to interweave the most beautiful elements of both cultures – not against each other, but with each other. It is crucial that no one culture “predominates”. Rather, a harmonious composition of symbols, rituals and emotions is created.
From the Turkish side, traditions such as the collection of the bride or the rousing playing of davul and zurna can be a powerful sign. When the groom, accompanied by music and family, ceremoniously picks up the bride, you can feel the joy, warmth and togetherness that makes Turkish weddings so unique. This moment can be wonderfully combined with German customs – for example with a champagne reception (preferably non-alcoholic), the ceremonial entrance to the wedding ceremony or the symbolic cutting of the wedding cake.
The henna evening – a touching, intimate celebration with the closest family – can also be reinterpreted: warm colors, fragrant henna, emotional songs and personal words from the girlfriends. This ritual can just as easily be combined with a German “Polterabend” or a stylish pre-wedding evening – two worlds united in a loving atmosphere.
Music, dance and emotions at a German-Turkish wedding
Nothing connects people as directly as music. At a German-Turkish wedding celebration, rhythms, languages and emotions flow into one another. A classic opening dance – perhaps a waltz – can flow seamlessly into a lively halay, with guests from both sides dancing together. Later in the evening, Turkish folk songs, international pop songs and German classics alternate. The dance floor becomes a place where differences disappear and the only thing that counts is what unites everyone: Joy.
Culinary German-Turkish wedding harmony
One sensitive topic that we treat with the utmost care at Reinweiss is the culinary concept. Food is identity – and it plays a central role in intercultural weddings in particular.
We make sure that all guests feel welcome: Halal-certified food, pork-free alternatives and, of course, non-alcoholic drinks served elegantly. A non-alcoholic champagne reception with rose lemonade, homemade lemon mint or pomegranate mocktails can be just as festive as champagne.
It is important that these decisions are communicated early and sensitively – in invitations, menu cards or by the service staff. In this way, consideration becomes a matter of course and everyone feels seen and respected.
Between the generations – and right in the heart
For many couples of German-Turkish origin, the wedding is a celebration of love and family. Parents and grandparents carry memories, emotions and expectations – they have raised their children with the values of both cultures. These voices deserve to be heard.
At Reinweiss, we know that wedding planning often also means moderation:
If the mother insists on a henna evening but the couple wants a modern celebration, we will find a way to combine the two. If the father is worried about whether his guests will feel respected, we will make sure they feel welcome and understood. After all, it’s all about belonging – a German-Turkish wedding is a success when all generations can see themselves reflected in it: the grandparents with pride, the parents with joy and the couple with the feeling that they have celebrated their own story.
Competence, trust and understanding
As a member of the German-Turkish Chamber of Industry and Commerce Reinweiss Hochzeiten is closely connected to the Turkish community in Berlin and has an excellent network of caterers, musicians, designers and speakers who understand both cultures. Our teams are interculturally trained and have the experience to sensitively translate cultural nuances and transform them into a coherent concept.
We see ourselves as mediators between cultures – with the task of building bridges, avoiding misunderstandings and creating beauty from diversity. Every couple, every family and every culture has its own rituals, wishes and ideas. Our task is to express all of this in a language called love – in every culture, in every gesture, in every detail.
